When I first sat down, at the advice of a mentor many years ago to calculate the cost of my porn addiction, I assumed there was no cost, because I mainly watched free tube sites. You may also be thinking the same thing.
One of the most common misconceptions in porn addiction recovery is the assumption that a Slip is the same thing as a Relapse. They are actually two different things and undertanding the difference can play an important role in the progress of your recovery from porn addiction. I will begin with Slips.
Earlier this week, as part of my advice for winning in 2017 I shared my new , no bullshit barometer for porn addiction. Its quite simple:
How many years have you set goals and and failed to achieve them? If I could show you a few ways to rock 2017 and experience a DEFINITE improvement in your life, are you interested enough to actually try them?
My first experience with porn was from a magazine my nanny masturbated to in front of me when I was 8 years old. I was curious and ashamed to see her do that.I realized it was something taboo and from then onwards, I always sneaked into her room to look at those images. I was […]
Photo Credit: Shutterstock “You’re such a loser Chris!”… “I can’t believe I fucking watched that shit.”…. “Oh God…what have I done?”.. The shame. Its horrible. Every man who crossed the line in his porn habit, masturbated to some new fetish to satisfy his craving or acted out his porn induced sexual urges in […]
Photo credit: Shutterstock For those quietly battling porn addiction,the fight can be brutal . Multiple relapses over the years, the guilt, betrayal of loved ones, the erectile dysfunction…the jump into acting out in real life-its a rough journey, alright! Sometimes, its easier to deal with everything by unconsciously telling ourselves lies.These lies grow and […]
Porn addicts are not using porn to escape, they are using porn to overcome a craving beyond their mental control So you’ve tried to quit porn and failed. Several times. You’re not alone. By my estimation, hundreds of thousands of men have tried and will continue to try and fail dismally in the years […]