Happiness, Porn and Sexy Women Soccer Players

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Its 4:29 A.M as I write this post in the dim light of my bedroom window .On the platform bed next to me sleeps the most beautiful and caring woman I’ve met in the past few years. Her body is a sin to look at- an amazing athletic, tanned physique, honed by years of soccer, punctuated with a firm butt… wide hips, a toned belly with the sexiest outline of abs…perky,succulent little…ok, ok- we don’t need anyone relapsing on this post.

Basically,shes got an amazing personality, a goal oriented life and  one of those bodies you straight up want to own forever – suffice to say some days, its hurts to watch her walk away. I might actually get really attached to this chick. Just kidding.

Six years ago, the only way I could be with a woman like this was in my daydreams as I drove to work listening to romantic ballads, or during late night masturbatory sessions.

These days I rarely wake up without a gorgeous woman next to me. I’ve built a rotation of so many fantastic, sexy women, that I need an app to monitor their periods, a Cialis subscription and an elite time management system to maintain my lifestyle.

Guys, I’ll say it straight up- I’m living the life of my dreams. I love sexy women, I love seducing them and making love to them, I love hard work, I love achievement, I love winning and I am incredibly blessed that the work I do isn’t even “work”. I literally get paid for my lifestyle of choice. A porn-free, sex abundant life that I consciously engineered.

I don’t get much sleep, but that’s fine, because I am excited to wake up every more and chase my dreams. Eat clean, lift, get some cardio in , work your ass off and you can sleep when you’re dead.

Years ago, I would go to bed at 3 A.M, my eyes burning from watching scene after scene of porn, drunk or high with patches of dried semen all over my underwear, wake up hungover and spend my day in a haze of mediocrity punctuated by escapes fro reality through TV and gaming. My life sucked.

In the book “The Power of Habit: Why we do what we do in Life and Business”, by Charles Duhigg, researchers came across what they called a “Keystone Habit”- one crucial habit in your life, that once changed , reprograms all other routines in your life.

For myself and for a lot of men out there, that keystone habit was compulsive masturbation to internet porn. The moment I quit screwing around and focused ALL my energy on quitting my porn habit, everything else in my life shifted drastically.

When you apply discipline, desire, dedication and mental fortitude it takes to TRULY give up porn to other aspects of your life, the impact is immense. Its not just about quitting porn, guys-its about joining life.

My work ethic has become ridiculous. 16-20 hour work days are the norm. My family calls me a workaholic, but I consider success to be a moral obligation.

My dedication to the gym increased- I haven’t missed more than three days at the gym in 6 years except when I attend my 10 day meditation retreats. I thrive off 4 hours of sleep with no side effects. Prior to giving up porn, I believed I could only function on 8 hours of sleep.

My skill with women increased. I currently have a rotation of 11 very attractive women that will come by on any given night, the ability to walk to the whole foods store down the block ,get a few numbers and go on a date tonight, or by the weekend. If all fails, I have solid Tinder game which basically turns my phone into a magical instrument that manifests sex on demand.

My relationships have become deeper and more rewarding-I’m meeting more people on the same path as myself and getting inspired each time I meet with them.

While my current place in life feels great and I experience the most amount of gratification that I’ve ever experienced in my life, the PROCESS over the past six years have been the most joyous. The long grinds with the tiny victories was actually where I experienced the most happiness.

I attached happiness to my goals, but in all honesty, while having rough, wild sex with the fit 22 year old soccer player I met at the gym last week was fun, sometimes I find myself wishing it was a little tougher. When the going was tough, the only way I could succeed was to actually BE happy.

Alot of men make no progress in their lives because they feel that true happiness will come when they are much better with women, when they quit porn, when they achieve a certain net worth. Trust me- I ain’t gonna lie to you -there’s an AWESOME feeling that comes with all of that-but being unhappy and trying to build a relationship with a woman doesn’t work. Being unhappy and struggling to quit porn doesn’t work. Being unhappy and trying to build a business or successful career doesn’t work.

It doesn’t work because when you finally achieve your goal, you realize that its hollow. You banged three hot chicks this week. So what?

You have to find joy in the struggle. Learn to smile at your failures and keep pushing. When another girl you like puts you in the friendzone, you have to quit bitching about it, beating yourself up about it and just say “Fuck it- on to the next one”- with a smile on your face. It will be hard at first. You’ll feel weird and a little silly at first. But it will become a habit. Then the struggle becomes bearable, even enjoyable.

Ask any guy who lifts weights seriously why they go through the pain everyday to build muscle. Its the same mindset that it take to get good with women, to quit porn, to become successful. You are driven by a strong desire to become a certain kind of man. Attaining your goals become much easier when you are committed to enjoying the process. You’ve created an image in your mind and you’re not going to quit till you are the living embodiment of this image.

I’m literally the man I imagined myself to be many years ago. I’m hungry for more. Much more. I want more men to take the hard journey to become the men they believe they can be- no matter how ludicrous your goals may sound to others.

The most valuable thing you can possess in life as a man is your image of yourself as a valuable, contributing member of the human race. A winner in this amazing game of life- a man who achieves worthwhile goals. My first goal was quitting porn.

What will yours be?

 

Be Happy,

Chris

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  • Sterling

    Chris,
    Im Glad to hear that your dreams are coming into manifestation. It’s always a good feeling when your hitting your stride in life and making big things happen. I really respect you for going through the fear barrier that limits most of us from reaching our true potential. I have a job that pays very good money but i have to drag myself to work everyday, when i could probably be a lot happier doing something that I’m passionate about. It provides for a lifestyle that i really enjoy but the older i get the more i realize that it great to have nice things but it not what makes us happy. Guys that base their entire self worth on owning yachts, mansions and lier jets are shallow and insecure at best. Marketing is always telling us we don’t measure up but after buying this certain product then we will finally feel whole as a person. What makes me happy is growing as a person, adding value to the lives of other people, living a purpose driven life, and becoming a better version of myself tomorrow than i am today. Keep writing these articles i really enjoy reading them. Its a nice change of pace from society’s bullshit!

    Cheers!

    Sterling

  • Alan

    This article had really helped convince me that I need to push further and harder than I’ve ever pushed before.
    But how? Where is the instruction manual for how to transition into this type of lifestyle?

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